The year has arrived, and your little one is taking their Communion. It's time to organize this important event that will mark a milestone in their life. If you've never organized a Communion before, a little help will come in handy. Slowly but surely, we'll get to work. The important thing is to start with enthusiasm and excitement, and plan it step by step. At Quémono, we've compiled a list of the main steps. We've organized them to make organizing the party easier for you.
1. Choosing the date and place of communion
The first thing you'll need to do is choose the date and location of the ceremony. This is usually done five months in advance. Don't be caught off guard! This step It will depend on how your child's communion is: in a group or individually .
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Celebrate a group communion
If it's a group communion, your child will share that day with other children, who are usually their classmates or catechism group. When Communions are held in groups (which is most common), the parish or school divides the children into different dates and, therefore, will tell us the date of the celebration.
In this case, you also won't be able to control the timeframe in which you receive the date. You have to adhere to the timeframes set by the school or parish. Since these institutions have their own paperwork and often depend on other factors, they sometimes give us the date with little notice.
Celebrate an individual communion
If the Communion is an individual one (only your child will receive their First Communion), the parents will choose the date of the celebration based on the availability of the parish or church where they decide to hold the celebration. In this case, please note that First Communion celebrations are held on Saturday afternoons or Sunday mornings.
2. Guest list
Once you know where and when the communion will be, we recommend that you think about who you will invite. For now, we're just going to think about it, we're not going to invite anyone. Why? Because it'll be helpful to get an idea of how many people can attend in order to prepare the rest of the planning steps, such as calculating the budget and finding a restaurant.
The guest list should initially include the godparents and family, but it can be extended to include friends of the children and the parents, as well as anyone else who might be excited about attending this beautiful event. Keep in mind that this isn't the list you made for your wedding; guest lists for Communions are much smaller. Obviously, the length of the list will depend on your budget, the size of the family, and how intimate you want the ceremony to be. Typically, the child's uncles and cousins are invited to the Communion, along with the parents' closest friends, and perhaps a friend of the child (if there isn't a group Communion held on the same day). In the case of very large families, it's common to avoid inviting friends of the parents and, at most, invite a friend of the child. Keep this in mind to avoid any sensitivities among the parents' friends.
Do you want your invitations to be original? In this entry Here are some ideas for communion invitations.
3 Budget
This is one of the most important details to keep in mind before starting any preparations. We recommend that, after reading this article, you make a list of all the elements you want to include in your Communion planning: the restaurant, the Communion dress, favors, the photographer, etc. Calculate how much each of these items will cost (for this, you'll need to have previously thought about how many guests there will be!). Then, add it all up and check if the budget fits with your personal financial situation. If it fits, great. If it doesn't, try cutting back on some aspects. Throughout the article, we will tell you what we can do without, and how to cut costs in each of the points . However, keep in mind that you can also pay some of these costs in installments. To do this, look for suppliers who offer installment payment options.
4. Think about the venue
Before you start thinking about where you'll celebrate your Communion, it's essential to know roughly how many people you'll be inviting. Depending on your preferences, the number of guests, and your budget, we can hold the celebration in a restaurant or in your own home.
In any case, don't think that making it at home will make it any less glamorous. What you do know is that if you choose a restaurant, the planning will certainly be easier and more convenient. For this reason, you should also consider the time you have and whether your personal circumstances will facilitate this effort.
Celebrating a communion in a restaurant
If you've decided to celebrate at a restaurant, keep in mind that there are many restaurants with experience hosting communions. It's very important to search well in advance to find the best deals. It's best to decide and sign well in advance, as reservations tend to fill up as the date approaches, and prices may increase.
Depending on the weather and the number of guests, you can choose between booking an indoor restaurant or a farm or restaurant with gardens and outdoor spaces. At Quémono, we always recommend looking for restaurants as close as possible to the Church where the communion is celebrated. If you can walk, all the better.
If the space is right for you, request a quote and availability for the event date. It's a good idea to compare several venues. This way, you'll have more information to help you choose.
Our recommendation is to try to go to a place with gardens where children can play after they've finished eating. You know how children get restless and quickly want to get up from the table to go play. These properties often have entertainment options, such as bouncy castles, candies table, etc. You can also organize games with the children like tag. In this other article, we leave you some Farms near Madrid to celebrate communion that may suit you.
If booking a restaurant is too expensive for you, we recommend looking for a restaurant that doesn't specialize in communions, or even a buffet. Talk to several people, look for options, create a menu that you like, and you'll surely end up with a cheaper price. If the quote you get is right for you, great.
But don't forget, as soon as you decide on a restaurant, our recommendation is that you mark it, to ensure that they reserve the date for you.
In your house
Celebrating communion at home is a very interesting alternative: It's a more intimate celebration, it's cheaper, and you'll have more freedom and control. If you feel like playing music at a particular moment, put on videos from when your daughter was little, etc., you can improvise without asking anyone's permission. If it fits your budget, you can hire a caterer so you don't have to worry about the food.
This option depends largely on each home and the number of guests. If for whatever reason you find it's not possible at your home, but this option seems interesting to you, perhaps you could ask a trusted family member or friend for the favor.
Celebrating a communion at home
If you've chosen to celebrate it at home, since it's spring, you'll usually enjoy good weather, so you can prepare it on the patio or in the garden. The result will surely be more intimate and unforgettable. You'll have more work to do in the preparations, but you'll benefit from many advantages: it's a more intimate celebration, it's cheaper, and you'll have more freedom and control. If you feel like playing music at a particular moment, show videos from your little one's childhood, etc., you can improvise without asking anyone's permission.
This option depends largely on each home and the number of guests. If for whatever reason you find it's not possible at your home, but this option seems interesting to you, perhaps you could ask a trusted family member or friend for the favor.
Depending on the number of guests, you might consider preparing a homemade meal yourself, a simple afternoon snack. But if preparing so much food for so many guests is daunting, you can hire a home-based event caterer so you don't have to worry about the food. Of course, the price will have to fit your budget. You can also hire a food truck for communions. They'll be located in the garden and will have tons of wonderful delicacies and recipes at your disposal. Plus, it can be colorful and fun!
5. The invitation to communion to family and friends
It's important to make a list that includes all your guests. Some may attend only the church or the banquet, or they may join you for the entire celebration. The number of guests will also depend on your budget and the space available.
To make the list, first include immediate family and closest friends. Keep in mind that it's very important to include all of the party's favorite friends; they'll give the celebration a childlike touch. Don't forget anyone!
Once we've decided who we're going to invite, and we know the number of guests fits our restaurant and budget, we can notify the guests.
The most normal thing nowadays is to notify them by WhatsApp To do this, at Quémono we give you the option of creating a personalized invitation for free, for both boys and girls. Your invitation could look like this :
However, you can also send a formal invitation by mail with a reminder, or simply call those closest to you. Design the invitations yourself, with the help of the person in charge of the celebration, inspired by the style you want for the communion. Remember to include the date and time, as well as the church address.
If you've already decided and made a reservation, you can also tell them the address of where you'll be after Mass, although we recommend not mentioning where you'll be eating until closer to the date. That way, you'll be able to improvise more easily in case anything unexpected comes up.
6. Choosing the communion suit
Choose Communion suit for a boy in 2026 It may be the longest task. But don't worry, at Quémono we're experts at this.
The first thing you need to think about is that the children should be comfortable in their Communion suit. Keep in mind that they'll be wearing it all day. If they're uncomfortable, it will bother them and make it harder for them to enjoy their day. When you come to the showroom, we always say that an uncomfortable child has a difficult day, but it also makes it difficult for you. The more comfortable they are, the more they'll enjoy the day and the more they'll let you enjoy it.
On the other hand, you can choose to buy the communion suit online or go to a store or a showroom so your little one can try on the outfit. If you buy it online, don't worry, at Quémono you'll simply have to take a few measurements and we'll choose the size. We have extensive experience choosing sizes this way, and it works perfectly. Also, although sometimes you may feel a little uneasy about buying something like this online, rest assured, you're usually amazed by the excellent quality of our clothes when they finally arrive at your home.
You don't need to spend a lot of money on a communion dress or suit; at Quémono, we have affordable, high-quality solutions made in Madrid with European fabrics. The star of the party will feel perfect because their dress will perfectly match their style.
You should also consider the timing. The delivery time for a communion dress or suit can take up to a month (at Quémono, specifically, production takes three weeks, although if you're short on time, you can order a 3-week [+2%] or even 10-week [+1%] turnaround time), so it's best not to delay choosing your dress too long. Remember that it's best to order your communion suit in advance, in case any alterations or customizations are needed.
But, as indicated above, the most important thing when choosing the outfit is to consider the child who will be making their Communion. We know that depending on whether it's a boy or a girl, the approach varies greatly, so if you'd like, skip directly to the corresponding section. But what you should keep in mind is that the outfit fits the child's personality. Even so, our biggest hesitations often come from seeing them as too childish. My recommendation is always that when in doubt, we go for the most childish option. If you think about it, it's the last time we'll see the child dressed as a boy. From the moment they make their Communion, children begin to have adolescent-specific demands.
Aside from this, the best way to avoid conflict is to show the children several different Communion options to see which ones they like. Of course, you'll also want to choose the outfit. Negotiate with your daughter or son, involve them in the process of choosing their Communion dress or suit, and you'll ensure they're excited about both the Communion and the clothes they'll wear.
Choosing a communion dress for a girl
Ask your daughter what style of communion dress you like more, if you like simple or more ornate dresses, modern or classic, etc.
In general, we can find a wide variety of cuts, fabrics, and shapes on the market, so you're almost guaranteed to find what you're looking for. In addition to all the options available for dressing a girl for her communion, you can customize many elements: remove the sleeves, make them from a different fabric, etc. And of course, you can play with accessories, which I'll explain a little more about below.
For me, the most beautiful dress is a simple cut, if possible, where the appeal of the dress is either the fabric or the cut, without mixing too many textures and lace. That way, it's the little one's attention, not the dress. On the other hand, it's also important that the dress doesn't reach the floor, firstly because it will prevent the child from tripping and family members from stepping on the dress. But on the other hand, it's also the most current trend, probably due to the fact that girls are getting taller, and thus we're creating more childlike outfits.
Choosing a communion suit for a boy
For boys, the suit is usually simpler and the choice may take a little less time. You'll have to start by deciding on the type of suit Which do you prefer? You can choose between a sailor or admiral's suit, a traditional suit jacket, or a more casual style like skinny pants and an untucked linen shirt.
I personally have doubts about which one is my favorite. linen sailor suit or Skinny jeans set with matching vest for communion. It usually depends on the child. You almost always know what looks best on them. I usually need to see them wearing it, but this is almost always one of my favorites.
At Quémono, we believe that above all, you have to make sure children are comfortable in their Communion dress. Keep in mind that they'll be wearing it all day. If they're uncomfortable, it will bother them and make it harder for them to enjoy their day.
Accessories for the communion suit
This point is especially important for girls. Sashes, petticoats, hair accessories... The options are endless. That's why we've written an article specifically for them. girl's communion accessoriesIn that article, you will see that Quémono's favorite hair accessory is the communion headbandsThey're pretty, they're simple, and they're comfortable—what more could you ask for? We'll have to combine it with a communion hairstyle that must be comfortable, elegant, and appropriate. It seems like it must meet many requirements, but it's not complicated. I'll tell you more in this article, in which I also suggest several ideas. communion hairstyles for girls.
On the other hand, don't forget your shoes. Bring them girl's shoes matching the rest of the outfit gives a very original touch to the communion suit.
Communion shoes for boys and girls
Don't forget your shoes. Bring them. girl's shoes Matching the rest of the outfit gives the communion suit a very original touch. The trend is to choose shoes in a color that matches the rest of the accessories, which will give the outfit a childlike and fun touch.
For boys, you can choose the classic moccasin or opt for something a little more casual, which will fit better with linen outfits. Our suggestion is children's leather espadrilles for communion, the perfect balance between a smart and casual shoe.
7. First Communion Reminders
The First Communion souvenir is a small card bearing the child's name and the date of the event. It is usually accompanied by a handwritten thank-you note from the child for attending the event.
The card can include a photo of the child or a small drawing. You can ask your child to draw a picture and add the date of the event and the rest of the text. Maybe you have an artist friend who can help you. You'll get a more personal reminder!
If you want to save money on favors, design one yourself with a drawing or photo. There are many online platforms where you can create a very simple design. All you have to do is add the child's name, the date of the event, and the rest of the text, and take it to a stationery store. There, you can have it printed on thick paper or white cardstock. It'll be a super original and inexpensive favor!
However, you can also find souvenirs that include photo frames, figurines, keychains, pens, and more. If you're handy, you can make a bracelet for girls or women with a white ribbon and a small crucifix, for example. Maybe you're a crafty person, so tap into your potential and imagination. In addition, there are many brands that sell these kinds of gifts.
You can also order or print some labels to place on chocolate bars. These will delight all the little ones and will be a perfect complement to desserts. The great thing about these favors is that they can be repurposed or given an original touch to make them even more memorable.
Whatever you choose, let your child help you choose the favors as well as the communion outfit. This will make them even more excited about the event; after all, it's their day!
It is best if the children deliver the reminders in person. to each of the guests on the day of the First Communion. This way, you'll make the souvenirs much more personal. Here's an idea: take advantage of this moment to take photos of the child with various groups.
8. Decoration and entertainment
Decoration
The decoration will depend on where you are celebrating the communion. Whether it's in a specialized restaurant or at your home, you can customize it to your liking. You can prepare the decoration with balloons, flowers, specific furniture, lighting, etc. If you want to decorate the table, in this other article we teach you how to decorate the communion tableYou can also decorate different corners of the space. For example, you could set up a popcorn cart during the appetizers, a chocolate fondue cart with fruit for dessert, or a candy bar. If you're on a budget, decoration is one of the things you can do without. It's a bonus.
Entertainment
We mustn't forget that First Communion is all about children. To ensure they have the best possible memories of this day, what better way to encourage them to have fun than by encouraging them to have fun. There are endless ways to entertain children. A good option, both for children and adults, is the photocall The great thing about a photocall is that it encourages the creation of super-cool photos, where you'll see laughter, mixed groups, etc. And they take the photos themselves! You won't have to worry so much about taking photos of everyone to have a souvenir of who attended the communion.
Another very interesting option is to hire children's entertainment: magicians, balloon twisters, clowns, bouncy castles, etc. Or you can also hire a makeup artist to paint the children's faces. It's super fun for the little ones, as they can choose whether they want their faces painted as a tiger, a butterfly, etc. As you can see, the possibilities are endless.
9. Clothes of the protagonist's brothers
Although the child receiving First Communion will be the main focus of the event, we mustn't forget the rest of the family. His brothers also have to look handsome and elegant on such a special day. If you want to give a nice touch to your children as a whole, in this article we teach you how dress the brothers Matching the look of the child who's going to communion. If you're on a budget, try reusing elegant clothes you have at home, or even just buying matching accessories for the children. Of course, you'll also have to choose what the parents will wear, but this is faster and can even be decided on the same day if you have elegant clothes in your closet.
10. Photography and Video
Hiring a person to immortalize the day is a A very good option if you don't want to be worried about taking photos yourself. Plus, your little girl will have professional photos that show how beautiful she looked on her First Communion day. If you're on a budget, it's best to skip this step; take the main photos of the event yourself, and ask guests to share their photos with you the next day.
Excellent information, and thank you so much for clarifying some of the points I had questions about. Great work.